As I have said before, I am a contributor to
AdviseHer, and this week there are two relevant things that landed on my desk(top) these last few days.
The first is a post on Fortune magazine editor-at-large Patti Sellers' blog,
Postcards, entitled "
Are women lousy negotiators?" The post stipulates that women are bad at negotiating salaries for themselves and tooting their own horn.
The second is the transcribed text of the
graduation speech that Facebook COO Sheryl Sandberg gave at Barnard College two weeks ago. It's a fantastic speech, and I really encourage you to watch it. I want it to be playing in my bathroom every morning to get me pumped to tackle the day as I get ready.
In the speech, she talks about how the women of her generation have failed to close the achievement gap and puts the onus on this year's graduates to do so. She underlines, however, that women must close the ambition gap before we can close achievement gap.
She makes a point about how successful women who take ownership of their awesomeness have to bear both the external and the personal costs of that success, meaning that, one day, we will have choices to make between thriving in our careers, raising families, or pursuing other nontraditional goals. The thing that struck me the most about the speech is the part about women "finding balance for responsibilities they don't even have" yet.